Let me start off by saying if you don’t think prayer is very important, or don’t like doing it, you’ve got a lot to learn. Prayer is one of the most wonderful things that God has blessed us with. For so long I was ignoring this awesome gift, and I never realized the potential it had.
With that out of the way, here’s what I’ve got to say about it. David sets the bar for prayer in scripture. In 2 Samuel 7 he prays to God with enthusiasm, praise, and unselfish desires. “How great you are O sovereign LORD!” “There is no one like you, and there is no God but you.” David praised God fervently from his heart. What I’ve learned is that once we encounter God, once we establish a relationship with Him and see His glory, we can do nothing but praise and worship Him. When we see how awesome He is, our natural response is to fall on our faces in humility and praise Him. In God’s presence we realize how much greater He is than us. His holiness makes us see how unholy we are, and we almost feel embarassed; its impossible to have pride in His presence. But thankfully God makes us clean and unblemished in His sight through Jesus Christ, and this is where our praise for Him comes from. I am in awe of the fact that I am worth so much to God that He would sacrifice His son for me. I know how unworthy I am of this gift, but God still gave it to me.
David also says, “Do as you promised [(bless my family)], so your name will be great forever.” He makes a request from God, asking that He would keep His word and bless David’s family, but he doesn’t ask this out of selfishness. David wants the blessing so that his family can glorify God and make His name known. In everything we ask for we should ultimately want praise to be given to God because He is more than worthy of it. This may seem like something difficult to do, because we are selfish people and we want things for ourselves. It might be difficult to ignore what we think we need or want, but the fact is we doget something out of this. Something that I am still being convinced of is that God completely satisfies. We don’t need anything but God to be satisfied. This is a lofty thought that I still have trouble grasping, but it keeps proving itself true. In order to pray with selflessness, we must realize that God alone will totally satisfy us. We don’t need other things in our lives, just God. So with this thought in mind we don’t need to ask for anything else but God in our lives. We have God, so what else could we possibly need, apart from more of God? I don’t need money, or a girlfriend, or sucess, or anything else in this world. With that out of the way I am freed up to pray unselfishly. I can pray for others, and for God’s praise.
In all of this, the most important thing that I’ve learned is that to pray effectively, we have to be seeking God’s heart. We have to find what He wants and pray for it. What does God want you might ask? Well that’s something you’ll largely have to find out for yourself. I know for a fact that God passionately desires for all of his children to come home, and that drives a large portion of my prayer. I also know that He seeks glory, not because He’s power hungry or obsessed with Himself, but because He truly is the most awesome thing in the universe, and it doesn’t make sense to worship anything but Him. God is the greatest, the lovingest, the kindest, the most powerful, the wisest, the most intelligent, the most creative, the most beautiful, the most awesome, the biggest, the best, and the most perfect God who was, is and ever will be. He is the only one worthy of our praise, and He knows it. God wants our praise because nothing is more worthy than He.
Apart from His desire for us to praise Him, and His desire for us to seek Him and find comfort in Him, you’ll have to discover what God’s heart desires on your own. But we have to make sure that our prayers are driven by His desires, whatever we find them to be. Trust me, we want His desires because they are the best thing that could happen. God knows everything, and he knows what’s best for His creation. So in everything we must seek God’s heart and, when we pray, let His desires motivate us.